Anniversary, love and lovemaking – Dec-27 we got married….

Vegas 427Some time back a friend of mine said that my writing blogs, making videos and posting on Facebook about my wife is all a kind of show… He was saying that in a jovial sense but it did also convey a truth that there are many who think it is less masculine to show affection… there are even more in the popular culture that claim that love is a personal thing and not to be shown in public… and even another group that thinks that the one who shows more love in public has more to hide and it is his guilt or strategy to not get caught is what manifests itself as love in public…..

Today Dec 27 is our wedding anniversary and I feel happy for being with the lady who is my wife…. that does not mean I don’t appreciate other beauties…. appreciation of beauty does not and should not mean you are disloyal to your partner….. love flourishes when one is open about it and also open about the concept of love… now before you jump into conclusions let me say what I have to….

I love to live in the moment and every time I write or make a video or post on Facebook about my love… it comes straight from the heart…. I also make sure I express it to my wife in person…. We have seen people show tremendous amounts of love for each other and then separate and we have also seen people who hate to live with each other and then spend a whole life time together….. If you ask me for a choice I would say people should be happy when they are together…. you never know what is in stock for you in the future… if love does not exist… if the passion has died…. if you don’t make love regularly…. then it is high time you start discussing with your partner…. sometimes even after all this, things don’t work as we expect… but then life can never be planned to the minute…

When it comes to discussing love making.. women we know are kind of reserved… at least many Indian women I have seen…. but men too… they talk about all their love encounters and fantasies in an “all men crowd”… but fail to talk about it openly with their own partners…. And the main reason is we men always labor on a delusion that we are always good in bed…. we can’t fathom the thought that we might be bad in bed…. We love “lovemaking” how ever short the encounter may be but in reality that does not mean we are really good at it…..

It is also true that it is OK to be not that good in bed….. Just like anything…. this is also a skill one can work on… I don’t know what the level of mastery is but you can get better at it… Also in my opinion you get better in lovemaking only when you have it with the same lady over and over again…. You know why…? because like any other skill you need feedback, correction and slowly you can build on it…. Sex in all ways is the binding factor for the health of a relationship.. however small the relationship be…

Now I understand lovemaking is a skill women can also mature on…. but I don’t have experience with a lot of women to comment more on their side…. and I have never been that great in comprehending the psych of women… however I would like to believe otherwise…

So on this anniversary of ours I wish you all a great life filled with sex, passion and love…. keep making love with the same lady…. it will get better with every year… and you will get better as well..

Now for all those cynics out there…. I know what is in your mind “How the heck do I know if I am better now than before…?” I know you will think that way and that is why I have put you in my list of cynic friends….

For your kind information we discuss our sex life very passionately… because, if you love sex… you need it even when you get old… I know I was not always good at it…. I loved it, but I sucked at it once..… I know it because I have heard it from the women I had relationships with… it had shattered me… made me look at myself in the mirror and puke….. but then you know what… one needs keep doing it if you like it…. keep practicing it.. keep timing it… and one day you will realize you are getting better and then you will start enjoying it better…. Sorry no classes will be provided…. go home to your wife and get laid today…. and enjoy it…

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